Lately, I notice that the most common conversation I have with other people includes the blaming game. I too play that game sometimes, lolz..
Most of the time, when your expectations didn't happened, your energy simply will diminish. Last night i had a very good talk with a friend. We had a good life sharing moments. We laughed and all..
As we were sitting there. It was then that i started to think about the blame game wondering “If games are supposed to be fun?” Right then, I realized that these blame game is totally a different kind of game. Even kids have these game too.
Funny to think that sometimes, we just love to pass our faults to other people. Yeah, i encountered that a lot too. Lucky, wisdom wise, we are mature enough to understand things like that. I sat down, took a long deep breath, and thought about the ways I’d contributed to my own unhappiness. In that moment, i realized i was blatantly ignoring vital life lessons too. Instead of blaming others, i should consider what i contributed why things happened the way, i didn't expected.
I believe we are here to learn lessons. Once we learn a lesson we move on to the next lesson. However, if we fail to learn a lesson, we keep finding opportunities to learn it again and again.
Isn’t it weird that sometimes, we just keep blaming others for our fault? Sometimes, even if know we are at fault and yet, we still find way to blame others.
At the end of the day, I've learned that LIFE will continue to throw us the same lessons until we learn from them.
