...funny thing is that, you are so damn nice infront of me, as if you carried the sympathy of the whole wide world but by the time you turn your back, OMG... you're so lame... amazing!!!!
oh well, i agree that we all are like that sometimes, unaware that we say things that we all agreed at anyway... we are humans, we are unique.... but to over do it? c'mon!
If we can see that someone has a fault and just say that there is nothing wrong, then that is pointless and does not help at all. If we tell the person that what they are doing is not too serious and later speak badly of them behind their back, that is not good, either. We should say what we think to their face. we should clarify what is necessary and separate truth from falsehood. If we have doubts then we should express them. Even if our words are a little harsh, we should say them anyway. ( i think im frank, im like that sometimes but other people always misunderstood me from being so frank, i mean, i really speak my mind.... di naman ako mayabang and why should we go mayabang anyway, in fact, i have nothing to ipagmayabang.... lolz..)
anyways, it will always clarify our thinking and any gossip will be unfounded. I learned that now that if we confine ourselves to smooth-tounged and polite remarks, there will always be a basis for distorting rumour because even when i say things the nice way, it will always come out the bad anyway, so why being so polite all the time, lets do direct talking... better!
I always believe that if our intentions are good, i think no matter what happens, you will always achieve your goals but if our intention is pure selfishness and pure self "lifting"... you may achieve a little but we will never achieve that goal.
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